ainthavinit

We always look outside the windows to see the views around us. Failing to see what’s inside the window. We do the same thing when something goes awry. Look inside the window next time instead of looking out it. All our issues, all our problems and all our success come from what’s inside that window. What we see outside the window influences our behavior and choices. That’s why we blame outside factors for our issues. When we can quit projecting our own flaws onto other people or outside circumstances and accept its us that creates the problems we can begin to do the work to no longer create the same outcomes over and over no matter the people, places or things we see outside the window. It starts right here. If you’ve gotten this far I believe one of three things has happened. First you might think I’m full shit. Second you may not understand fully what I’m saying. Or third you get it and the growth can begin. We all do this whether you agree with what I say here or not. And it’s on each one of us to accept it. We owe that to each other.